Saturday, December 11, 2004

Love And War

Some of you may be wondering, "Where the heck are they? Why haven't we seen an update?"

Several reasons, actually.

I've told this story so many times, I'll tell you the truth, I don't want to write it again, so I'll copy and paste the e-mail that I sent to a local Christian radio station, who read my plea on the air, and I thank them very much for doing so. I would also like to add right here in my public journal, the response from the Birmingham, Alabama Christian community was not overwhelming or even adequate, in my humble opinion. Yes, I am aware it's Christmas. I'll also ask, speaking of which, "What would Jesus do?" Here is part one of this story:

The E-mail that I sent to several friends, family members and the local Christian radio station:

I'm calling on everyone I know who might have "connections" in the area to help my goddaughter, Alicia and her fiance, Matthew. Here's the situation:

My best friend's daughter and her fiance were going to have a nice, long engagement. That was wonderful, we had plenty of time to plan this wedding. However, her fiance is now going to Afghanistan, January 3rd.  :( 

As you can understand, they really want to be married before he goes overseas. They have moved the wedding date to December 18th. There is literally no room at the Inn for these two kids. [I mean, this soldier and his bride.] Everyone we've checked with is booked that night with Christmas parties. They will most likely be married at the small church of her grandparents, but it's too small to handle the reception. They don't need a very large place, just something big enough for about 60 guests. If you know of a church with a reception hall in the Shelby County area, [available that night] that would be great too! But ... any community center, etc., in the area would be fine for the reception.

In closing, I want to ask you all for your prayers. Matthew is a brave young man, putting his own life on hold to help others in their time of need. Please, join me in prayer for his safe return.


The good news is, they found a church and reception hall very close to their town, and the wedding is set for next Saturday at 1:00 in the afternoon. The church is having a Christmas program that evening, so we have to have it cleaned up and be out ofthere by 4:30 or 5:00. Not easy, but also not impossible.  There will be many of us, we can do it. Unless I am mistaken, [correct me if I am wrong, Beth] We had no offers from the radio station audience. However, almost every single church I drive by in my community has the same billboard: "We Support Our Troops" I honestly thought I'd witness more patriotism. How very sad. My cousin has a close friend who is a pastor's wife, and this couple offered their church, reception hall and the pastor's services. So if you're wondering if my faith in my fellow Christian[s] has been destroyed, the answer is NO, is hasn't. But I won't hesitate to say, it has been shaken, a little. A reminder; the Christmas season is about Jesus, not us. Most certainly, not about "things." I believe He still listens and He has room for those who call upon him. Wise men, still seek him.

Lesson learned this week: People [even those who share your faith] will let you down. God will not.

You all know that it's seldom I discuss my religious or political beliefs in my journal and I try to keep things lighthearted around here, but sometimes, things weigh very heavy on my heart. This is one of those occasions.

I am now going to ask those of you who pray, to please pray for my goddaughter and her soon-to-be groom. I Pray for them, a long and happy life together. May they always be as in love as they are today. I pray too that God will keep Matt safe while he serves in Afghanistan. I hope the next year and a half passes by quickly for them, so they can start their new life together.  ...Amen...


Sorry, I had to edit. Also I wanted to add that I forgot to tell you everything else that's been going on and next week is going to be the busiest week I've had in a long time. But it will be in a good way. Winter break begins after December 17th. I'll have Stephen to care for and enjoy, 24/7 until January. I will [try] to update on our latest happenings soon. Stay tuned for photos from Breakfast with Santa coming next week. Stephen has quite a week ahead of him too! Have a happy weekend!


slowmotionlife said...

What would Jesus do?  Jesus not only would have found them a church to get married in, but he would have turned the water into wine.  Just my O.  :P  So glad to hear that things have worked out for Alicia and Matthew.  What a start to a marriage!  My prayers are with them.

my78novata said...

GIrl your busy we understand but that does not mean we dont miss you Happy Holidays. Lori

babyshark28 said...

I am so glad that the couple had gotten a place.  My husband and I rushed our wedding too, when I heard he was going oversea's for a year.  though, there was no war like there is now.   And, we bumped ours to Feb (he wanted Dec.) because there wasn't any room at the inn for us in Dec. either.  Which was fine with me though, he left 8 days after we married.  I was SO sad.  But, again...there was no war.  and I joined him 2 months later.  But, a way, I feel for them.  so, glad it worked out and glad your faith was not shaken too much.  Much love to you and your family during the holidays.  Enjoy Santa Stephen!! :D

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